Ask Sara: ‘Why Am we constantly a close friend or a Fling?’
Throughout my (unsuccessful) many years of searching for “the one”—or at the least someone—there happens to be a pattern that is clear. It’s one of two situations: 1) I’m buddies with a man and a crush is had by me, but he will not reciprocate, so we end up being buddies. Or, 2) We have a fling and I wish to carry on it and have always been a little interested, but he’s not, end of story.
therefore the essence is that i usually wind up as either a buddy or perhaps a fling, but I never appear to cause any intimate emotions in some guy.